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First Meeting

You and your date are ready to meet each other for the first time, this first meeting will be the trial for the rest of your relationship. The time and place are a very important factor.

In the observant stream of Judaism this first date may be made by the family or by a matchmaker and this is called a Shiduch" in hebrew.".

This shiduch is made for religious men and women, by friends or family etc. When someone thinks that another person he knows, or a friend of a person he knows, is looking for a match , he gives the number, full name, and other details of a person that might be suitable for the relative of the person who is looking for the match.

Nowadays this is made easy for this matchmaker or the family because of the internet all the details of the potential partner are written clearly and usually there is a photo also.

If the both sides are interested all is left is too make a date (with or without a chaperone dependending on how religious both sides are.

If both sides are interested to continue meeting each other and they are really religious a wedding date is usually set after 4-5 meetings. This request is made by the man to the womans family.

If you are not quite as religious then the meetings will be conducted in the normal way. You will arrange a time and a place to meet. (Most probably after a while of chatting to each other by phone or at the very least over the net via e-mail or chat.

love The first meeting that you have face to face will give both sides the chance to get an impression (other than a photo and get know each other better. Dont forget usually the first impression that you get of someone that you see is a lasting impression so it is important to make every effort to give a good first impression.

A day before the first date, it is important to call the other side to check that the meeting is still on his/her schedule, and that everything is ok. Another important thing is to set out for the date earlier than you think it will take you to dress and be ready to go out, It is better to arrive early than late, however not too early.

Sometimes a first meeting, leads to a sexual activity. This will happen if both sides are very open minded and attracted to each other. However if you are looking for a long term serious relationship don't come to a date with sex as your main target. Going to a date with sex as your target may not happen but always be prepared (with condoms or whatever).

What you wear for this first date the clothes, shoes, glasses etc is marked in the mind of your date for a long time, so make sure you dress appropriately. For instance dont wear an evening dress or suit if you are only going to a coffee house. Wear something that is casual and that you feel comfortable in.

All is left to say now is "good luck"